May you always feel at home.
After deciding not to have a biological child, Sarah Sentilles and her husband, Eric, try to adopt a baby through foster care. Knowing that the system aims for reunification with the birth family, they open their home to a flurry of social workers who question, evaluate, and prepare them to welcome a child into their lives--even if it most likely means giving that child up.
After years of starts and stops, the phone call finally comes: a three-day-old baby girl, Coco, in urgent need of a foster family. Sarah and Eric bring this newborn stranger home.
'You were never ours,' Sarah tells her, 'yet we belong to each other.'
A love letter to Coco and to the countless others like her, Stranger Careshares Sarah's discovery of what it means to mother: in this case, not just a vulnerable infant, but also the birth mother who loves the child too. Coco's story is a reminder that we depend on family, and that family can take many different forms.
Sarah Sentilles, author of the acclaimed Draw Your Weapons, brings her powerful prose and fearless compassion to an intimate subject with universal concerns: What does it mean to mother? How can we care for and protect one another? And how do we ensure a better future for life on this planet?
Sarah Sentillesis the author of Draw Your Weapons, Breaking Up with God, A Church of Her Ownand Taught by America. A graduate of Yale University and Harvard Divinity School, she lives in Idaho's Wood River Valley.
'A gripping and beautiful memoir about marriage, family, bureaucracy, community, heartbreak and hope. With wisdom and honesty, Sarah Sentilles shares a personal story that is also a story about how we live...and why we must find new ways to love and care for one another.' Ben Rhodes, author of The World as It Is
'A book that calls us to redefine what it means to have and make a family, to expand our understanding of what and who belongs, and to care more and better for those around us...It broke my heart wide open in the best possible way.' Lacy M. Johnson, author of The Reckonings
'An illuminating and heart-wrenching look at the foster-care system...Sarah's personal experience as a foster parent, combined with her reportorial examination of a deeply flawed system, makes Stranger Care a transformative revelation.'Piper Kerman, author of Orange Is the New Black
'This is the only book about parenting that I would recommend to anyone, because it strikes at the essential, complicated and heartbreaking core of what parents do every moment of every day: love...No matter what.' Emily Rapp Black, author of The Still Point of the Turning World
